The tenth list
I don’t want to list 10 guys I’ve kissed. The first and second, who coincidentally are also the most recent and the one before that (with a few faces, and a lot of years gap in between), are the ones I remember in dreams, the ones I measure by.
I should have stayed with either one. I don’t know what happened…well I do, but with the wisdom that passing years uncovered, the reasons for each end are meaningless.
A few years ago I reconnected with both – such fine wines those two men. Surely life would have been happy with either. Thirty years ago, doors slid shut, and I was on the other side each time. The view from this side has varied – it is what it is now, the memories bring smiles.
I believe in karma, we are where we are meant to be – I hope you’re content with the side of the door you ended up on too 🙂
Much to the confusion of some closest to me, yes I am content with the side of the door I ended up on. 🙂
Diana xo
Interesting that others can’t see it 😉
Maybe they don’t have to? 😀
True that ! 🙂
Love this post so much. 🙂 I think men grow more beautiful when they age and it’s always fun to see them after a long time. Men yet boys at the same time.
Thanks so much Purnimodo – I often think my writing is self indulgent so I’m really pleased to read your comment 🙂
I love this Annie, I have no regrets and often use to say before I met my hubby. I would rather be by myself than be with the wrong one, I like my own company I was single for a very long time. Don’t forget new doors can still slide open.
So happy you love it 🙂
Definitely better alone than with the wrong one…glad to be able to get that!
I’m sure a few of my doors should have stayed shut – but I am where I am! Love this, Annie 😀
ha ha 🙂 great comment Dianne – more than a few of mine should have too.
I couldn’t list ten men, Annie. I only remember the one I’m kissing now! lol xoxoM
And how lovely is that 🙂